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by canadianinlove on Sun Feb 06, 2011 09:13 AM

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Exactly one month ago today my soulmate, my best friend took his last breath on earth while his family, my aunt and I stood by his bedside holding his hands. He is in no pain now :-) but here on earth my heart still aches for him to be here. I wake every morning expecting him to be beside me or everytime I hear the door open I want it to be him. I am lost without him and I miss him so much.

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by grantsnanny on Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:11 AM

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Oh my dear, how well I know exactly what you are going through.  Two months ago I lost my soulmate of 40 years and it is as raw today as it was on December 3.  I wish that I could say or do something for you, but I can't even help myself through this.  Let's just try to help each other.

I am so very sorry for you, for me, and for all that have lost loved ones to this beast.  I will pray for you. 

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by inittogether on Sun Feb 06, 2011 03:46 PM

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I'm glad you are able to smile that he is pain & cancer free.  I hope that thought continues to bring you some comfort.  How is your son doing?  So much for a child to cope with.  I hope you have been able to get at least a little rest that might give you the emotional energy to make it through the day.

I hope time will bring healing & peace life forces us to move forward.  Hang on to those precious memories....speak his name often & know we think of you often.  I'm glad you stopped back by.  Give yourself time...take it slowly...don't expect too much of yourself.  1 month is no time at all & I'm sure it still seems like he just left yesterday.  We are here, but don't come back too often if it hurts too much.

Spring will be here soon & remind us all that life is for the living, & you will be better in a while....Kathy

 

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by ilbrainstem on Sun Feb 06, 2011 09:30 PM

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Hang in there.  Our one month is up tomorrow.  On the one hand it seems like so long ago that he died, but on the other it is hard to believe that it has been a full month and that time is marching on without him.  Tara

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by Kristalee on Tue Feb 08, 2011 01:33 AM

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Brandy, 

   I feel the same. Although I had two years to grieve, and Mark and I had a tough road emotionally. The loss I feel....there are no words to describe how much I miss him...No one understands, and friends and family are getting weary of me constantly talking about him. They just don't understand how much life has changed for me,and how much living through the brain cancer hell has changed my outlook on life....they think I should be able to "move on" and "let it go"...if only it were that easy.

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by Justjules on Tue Feb 08, 2011 07:04 AM

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Girl, I'm so glad you are still posting! You are sounding so good! I know how hard it, I'm at 4 months myself! You hold your head high, your beautiful man is watching you be strong for yourself and your son!

I'm so thankful for your update!

justjules

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by Heritage_Softail on Tue Feb 08, 2011 02:12 PM

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Through the photos you shared with us We could see the love you both had for each other. The photos in the corn fields to the woods your eyes were glued in affection for each other. Hold that love next to your heart as it will always be. Your memory will never fade of that true love you both shared..........

HOPE,

Damon

Dx Nov 07

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