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    Thursday at 6:02 PM
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      Apparently my last post was censored. You can plot destruction of school children on the internet or join a brutal cult, but it's not okay to use strong language to rale against the most formidable enemy of our lifetimes. Go figure. Anyway, I wanted to let you know about my grief class. It yanks up corners of my grief, and allows dormant demons to come creeping out from the cracks. It's a bit unnerving, but I'm sure...

      Thursday at 5:18 PM view post
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        I wish I could come to Florida and enjoy your sun, Lisa.....and Ray, I wish your pub was a little closer. LOL  Our temperature is in in single-digits this week, and getting a little tired of it. My grief class is very illuminating to say the least. Our discussions pry up the corners of the grief and allow little demons to creep out to vex me.  I think the biggest realization I've had in all this is that I'...

        Thursday at 4:47 PM view post
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          Pete, Darlin, it's so hard to know what to say. This disease seems to have a mind of it's own, and pops up in the damnedest places that one would never guess. The good news is they have made such progress in treating it. I'm glad they are using immunotherapy along with the traditional treatment and giving her body every opportunity to rally against this. She is so young, and I have to believe that is in her favor. I...

          Thursday at 4:31 PM view post
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            Marge, I'm so sorry about the panic attacks. I had those after my divorce and they are so scary. I'm glad you're getting some help. You know, I still think of 50 year olds as old women.  LOL  I'm a 30 year old in a 60-something body! I don't mean to disparage people who need support over a long period of time. I just want to be sure I don't use it as a crutch or an excuse not to move on. Grief is a tricky ...

            February 14 at 12:50 AM view post
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              Hugs backatcha, Marge. When I think of you, I know that you are okay because of the strong, resilient woman that you are. I'm glad you like my words. Words are so powerful and I try to use them for good, uplifting thoughts. I recently enrolled in a class called, "Understanding Your Grief." So far, it's been good. I do better with a structured class, a textbook and a journal. It's helping me get in touch with feelings...

              February 12 at 4:49 PM view post
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                Oh my gosh, Lisa, where is this concerned daughter now? Why is she not helping her dad and doing something about the friend?  One thing is for sure.....Gregg is not going to get any better staying in bed. But, Honey, it's not your job to get him up and going. He's got to decide he wants to live. I don't know Gregg, but it really appears that he sets up scenarios that will get you to come back. We've watched you ...

                February 11 at 5:21 PM view post
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                  Esterest, I'm so sorry that you are going through such a hard time with your mother. Mothers are so precious to us, and their aging and illness is so sad and frightening. I hope that the DNA analysis will prove helpful and get her into a treatment that works. I'm glad that you shared your story with us. Please keep us posted on her progress. - Patty

                  February 11 at 3:24 AM view post
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                    That's awesome, Pete! So glad for the good news. I know you will spoil her well when she gets home. That is exciting to be a part of groundbreaking treatments. You guys have a great weekend! - Patty

                    February 08 at 12:44 AM view post
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                      Hang in there, Kiddo. We are all right here sending you good thoughts. Please keep us posted. - Patty

                      February 07 at 8:52 PM view post
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