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    I miss you too, Sweet Pete. I think of you often and like our Ray, and send you love and light and wish you healing and all good things for the future. - Peppermint

    August 06 at 2:31 PM view post
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      Lisa, Lisa, Lisa!  It pains me to see you and Gregg still going through all of these erratic ups and downs. I just wish he could get settled somewhere....anywhere...comfortable and restful and positive so that you can just be with him and help him find moments of joy in the rest of his days. I swear it sounds like you are on the front lines of a war, and maybe that's what it is. My heart goes out to you. If I co...

      July 30 at 3:39 PM view post
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        July 30 at 3:33 PM
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          Hey, Sweet Pete. If we could have a reunion I would cry my eyes out, hug all of you around the neck and be so happy that we are still alive! Look at us, and how far we've come. This experience landed on us through no fault of our own, and we are heros and heroins and troopers extraordinaire. I'm so proud of each and every one of us! You keep hanging on, My Friend. This grief journey changes an morphs with time. Losi...

          July 30 at 3:31 PM view post
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            James, I'm glad you found this site. There are good people here who care about what you're going through. We don't always have the answers, but we have the love and care to support you and help you through this hard time. My heart breaks for your family. It's just too much for any family to have to bear, and yet this is the situation you have been handed. I hope you have a strong faith to carry you through the coming...

            July 15 at 4:29 AM view post
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              Marge, oh my gosh, I am so sorry you're having to go through all that. I'm so glad you have your sis-in-law and your son to help out. What would we ever do without our peeps?  I'm touched that you remembered the Dukes last words to me. It seems like so long ago.....yet just yesterday in some ways. Big love to you, Marge, and good juju for the best outcome! - Patty

              July 11 at 2:51 PM view post
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                Oh, Pete, you just made my day! I've been thinking about you and sending you good juju, even though I knew you were going to be okay. I'm so happy that you have people around you. That seems to be the key to keeping your head above water. Like you, I took on a bunch of house projects and I haven't stopped yet!  How blessed you are to have your conversation with Misty that saved your life. You deserve it, My Fri...

                July 11 at 1:07 PM view post
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                  Ray, I'm thinking about you this weekend and wishing you peace. I know how much you are missing your Helen, but please just remember you're not alone. Love, Patty

                  June 29 at 4:28 PM view post
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                    Pete, thank you so much for sharing your last days and hours with your Misty. It's amazing how closely the events mirror those of me and the Duke. They both reached a point of understanding and acceptance that their time here on Earth was done, and they wanted the best for us in their absence.  I love that she encouraged you to move on and find love again, but you and I know that does not happen overnight. Besi...

                    June 28 at 6:03 PM view post
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                      Punky, I love that you and your family have this wonderful memorial celebration for your mom every year. Any mother would be so pleased and proud. I bet she was with you every minute. Isn't it amazing how fast the time passes and yet it feels like our loved ones were just here with us yesterday! Thank you for your support regarding my sister. No, I haven't done anything wrong, and I appreciate the reminder because s...

                      June 26 at 10:16 PM view post
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                      Head and Neck Cancer
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