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    Ray, thank you for the good wishes. That means so much. I'm so glad it was the remote that fell face down and not YOU! ;) - PP

    Yesterday at 9:55 PM view post
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      My best friend's name is Marjorie Jane.  Everybody calls her MJay. I love that, and her. Now I know two good ladies who are Marjories!  That's great that you and the other Marjorie had fun and lifted each other up with your song. Thank you for sharing that story. Yes, we are on a cruel roller coaster ride and I'm getting dizzy from the ups and downs. I will take your advice to tuck away the good memories. ...

      Yesterday at 9:12 PM view post
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        Not good, Marge. Thanks for asking. I feel so alone right now. He sleeps all day and just gets up to eat and go to the bathroom. I'm amazed that he can still eat but he told me he forces it because, "No one is going to put a g-damn feeding tube in me!" We have labs tomorrow and maybe find out what's going on. Some tumors have shrunk, others have grown. My wedding ring broke, probably because I was working in the gar...

        Yesterday at 3:49 PM view post
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          Lisa, you crack me up!  LOL  No, I can honestly say I haven't seen The Duke in the same room with your Gregg. Definitely a reason to be suspicious that they may be one in the same! You know, it's the little things that can drive you up the wall, isn't it?  The Duke is freezing all the time in 95 degree temps. He shuts down the AC and turns off all the fans until the dog and I are ready to melt into a ...

          July 21 at 6:04 PM view post
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            Ray, that is such a blessing.  Thank heavens for the Bens of the world!

            July 21 at 5:51 PM view post
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              No guilt needed Ray. You are just taking care of yourself and Helen would like that.  One day when you are further along in your healing you will take that photo out again and it will give you joy. - PP

              July 20 at 2:35 PM view post
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                So touching and beautiful, Ray. Thank you for sharing.

                July 20 at 12:26 AM view post
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                  Thanks, Ray. I know you know all too well what my evening was like. I just get so frustrated, and then I fell guilty for feeling that way. Then I feel angry that this happened to us.  I'm just a big knot of unpleasant emotions!

                  July 19 at 4:12 PM view post
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                    LOL!  I do stuff like that all the time, Marge. Lavender is my favorite! Isn't it amazing to see again?  I have one eye done and the other one waiting.... Spent the evening in the ER after almost 18 hours with a high fever, and a man too stubborn to be seen. Pneumonia was the verdict, and caught just in time NO thanks to The Duke. He could have burned to a cinder.  I swear the man won't die of cancer....

                    July 19 at 2:35 PM view post
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                      Ray, yes, have read your messages and my very favorite is your "wake up call." Thank heavens for the way all of our lives intersect and teach each other valuable lessons. When you began writing on here you were drowning in despair. Now I hear the resolve and the hope in your words, and I am so blessed that you are sharing your story and progress with all of us. I pray for your continuing bravery and progress. Thank y...

                      July 18 at 12:44 AM view post
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