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    You'll make it, Sweet Pete. Find a special way to commemorate Misty's life. Maybe go someplace peaceful that the two of you enjoyed and just remember the good stuff. Love you, Dude. You can do this! - Patty 

    October 06 at 1:04 PM view post
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      Pete, so glad to hear you are doing better. I've been thinking about you and sending good juju. The bench is a wonderful idea. Today is the first anniversary of the Duke's passing. Just hard to believe he's gone, but I know he is at peace. I can feel it. Much love to you, and good wishes for your continuing healing. - Peppermint

      September 22 at 1:57 PM view post
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        Marge, I'm so happy you have found pain relief and thrilled that you have a new man in your life. It's nobody's business but yours to decide if the time is right. Kudos on moving on, my friend. Yes, life is short, and I am behind you all the way. - Love, Patty

        September 07 at 9:47 PM view post
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          Hi, everyone. This is my fifth time logging on. Maybe I can write this time instead of falling into a puddle of tears. It's just so much to take in. I really thought Misty and Gregg had a chance, and now I'm just so heartbroken that they are gone too. Guess the good news is that the rest of us are still here for what it's worth. And I think "what it's worth" is up to us to figure out. Ray, I like how you described y...

          September 07 at 3:20 PM view post
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            Oh my gosh, Lisa! I wish I could say welcome to this woesome little club but it's not a group anyone would join willingly. First, I'm happy for Gregg that he is free of pain and struggle. The Duke got one extra year out of Keytruda, but like you say, no particular joy during that last year. I think he would do it again just because he was a fighter. Darlin, you have shown remarkable love and compassion and stretched...

            August 29 at 6:36 PM view post
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              I miss you too, Sweet Pete. I think of you often and like our Ray, and send you love and light and wish you healing and all good things for the future. - Peppermint

              August 06 at 2:31 PM view post
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                Lisa, Lisa, Lisa!  It pains me to see you and Gregg still going through all of these erratic ups and downs. I just wish he could get settled somewhere....anywhere...comfortable and restful and positive so that you can just be with him and help him find moments of joy in the rest of his days. I swear it sounds like you are on the front lines of a war, and maybe that's what it is. My heart goes out to you. If I co...

                July 30 at 3:39 PM view post
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                  July 30 at 3:33 PM
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                    Hey, Sweet Pete. If we could have a reunion I would cry my eyes out, hug all of you around the neck and be so happy that we are still alive! Look at us, and how far we've come. This experience landed on us through no fault of our own, and we are heros and heroins and troopers extraordinaire. I'm so proud of each and every one of us! You keep hanging on, My Friend. This grief journey changes an morphs with time. Losi...

                    July 30 at 3:31 PM view post
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                      James, I'm glad you found this site. There are good people here who care about what you're going through. We don't always have the answers, but we have the love and care to support you and help you through this hard time. My heart breaks for your family. It's just too much for any family to have to bear, and yet this is the situation you have been handed. I hope you have a strong faith to carry you through the coming...

                      July 15 at 4:29 AM view post
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