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Kerrplat's Recent CancerCompass Activity

  • Kerrplat has replied to a post on the message board

    Jason, thank you for your reply. Our stories are eerily similar. I am so sorry for the pain that you have been through with your dad and I understand everything that you have explained regarding your feelings and all the crap you went through. It is just so unfair that we have been cheated out of our parents while other people are happily hanging onto theirs well into their 80s and 90s. It sounds like your dad was ...

    August 24, 2017 view post
    • Kerrplat has replied to a post on the message board

      ABC girlz....thank you for reaching out to me. It truly is such a dark place to be and nobody can understand it bc they are not us. I am so so sorry for your terrible tragedy, losing two of the most important people in your life within hours of each other. That is just heartbreaking. I know people say losing a child is an unimaginable loss....yet you are trying to move on. I give you so much credit. I do appreciate y...

      August 05, 2017 view post
      • Kerrplat has created a new message board discussion

        Since lung cancer stole my mom this June, I have been so angry and so lonely. Everyone says that you should continue to live your life as your loved on would've wanted. But HOW do you get past the anger and desire to be by yourself ? I have successfully pushed away every friend I may have ever had and the only thing left is my husband and three boys, who understand why I am sad, but want me to carry on with life ...

        August 04, 2017 view discussion
        • Kerrplat has replied to a post on the message board

          Hi CathywithaC! I too am very sorry for your loss of your own mom. It really means a lot to know that someone else has had similar feelings to what I am feeling now, and I appreciate you trying to interpret them for me. I never stopped to think that maybe my anger comes from her great suffering but that seems to sound pretty true. How long ago did your mom pass away ? I'm just asking because it gives me hope th...

          August 01, 2017 view post
          • Kerrplat has replied to a post on the message board

            Thank you Punky! I appreciate you sharing your experience and how you coped with the loss of your mom after a very long illness. My condolences to you on your terrible loss. I did actually reach out to a few support groups and ironically two of them only allow you to start once you are three months past your loved one's death. But .....I need a group now! Very frustrating. I'm hoping this board will allow me to co...

            August 01, 2017 view post
            • Kerrplat has replied to a post on the message board

              Thank you so much, Lindalay. I appreciate you validating that my feelings are normal. I guess I will just hold onto the anger and sadness until I'm ready to feel something else. I pray that happier memories will someday come me back to me. I miss her so much, and no one can ever replace her.

              August 01, 2017 view post
              • Kerrplat has created a new message board discussion

                I just came upon this board after googling "how do I go on after my mom died?" My dear sweet mom was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer in March of 2016 and she endured so much pain and misery for 15 long months of chemo. She passed away at age 74. I am 46, and I feel so cheated. Cheated out of all the years of memories yet to be made. People tell me I should be thankful she is no longer suffering, thankful that we h...

                July 31, 2017 view discussion
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