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    Sorry Patty - of course the Duke - apologies!!!!! Ray

    June 13 at 3:33 PM view post
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      Patty, I assume that the new profile picture is Don's favourite fishing spot.  I was going to say how beautiful but that word is not enough, its Magnicient!!! What a great place.  Ray

      June 13 at 3:11 PM view post
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        Patty, it so lifted me when you spoke about scattering The Dukes ashes and having such a good day.  Its a year on the 30th of this month and I am thinking of spreading Helen's ashes and what you talk about the "ritual of letting go", I need to do that but right at this time not sure that I can, but your experience has given me some hope that I can move foreward - thanks Patty, love.  Ray

        June 11 at 6:19 PM view post
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          Pete, I wanted to send you this photo.  Helen and I bought this climbing rose in 2015 - that year it bloomed pretty well for a young tree, but 2016 & 2017 it did very little, but this year - boooom!!!  A tree full of buds and just magnificient flowers.  Now people will tell me its to do with the weather etc., but I know this is Helen.  The rest of the roses in the garden are also wonderful thi...

          June 11 at 1:54 PM view post
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              Pete when you and Misty fought for so long and continued to grab on to each new hope, which eventually fades,  it just sucks the life out of you.  You were as fortunate as me in having a wife who was so brave and continued to fight to the very end and also tried to make things as easy as they could for us.  And when I look at last years calender and see all the appointments we had to attend, visits to...

              June 10 at 11:19 PM view post
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                Pete, I have stared at your message for ages not knowing what to say or do - so so sorry my friend. Misty was your world and her leaving brought back my own sad memories. Hang on to your family and friends Pete you will need their support to help you through those lonely hours when its just you and Misty. Ray

                June 05 at 8:15 AM view post
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                  Pete, I'm beside you my friend Ray

                  June 02 at 9:51 PM view post
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                    Pdewyn, so sorry you are in this chase with us please please hold our hands through this so difficult time, Ray

                    May 31 at 8:07 PM view post
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                      Pete, both Helen and I knew the end was near and we kept close but she never told me she was not scared, we just hugged, but she told Catherine her sister that she was ready to go but to look after me. Wish I had had that conversation. Love love love to you both.  Ray

                      May 31 at 6:56 PM view post
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