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  • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

    Hi KAK-  I don't go on ths website often as I am afraid of criticism. Things got so bad, name calling, fists in my face, and him calling the police to get me out of our new home that I cd take no more. The son, my only child, who was the reason we relocated from Ca. to SC. as he could help when my husband started getting angry.  My son passed away the end of June 2018 from a heart attack.  Within a mon...

    January 07, 2019 view post
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      Hello Lisa-  I just went on the site to check on all of my old friends.  I read that you lost Gregg.  He was so lucky to have you in his corner.  I am sure his love for you was there till the end. Now it is time to do for yourself. Please take the time to grieve, and remember the good times, no matter how far back they were. God Bless you for all you have done, not just for Gregg, but for me in yo...

      September 06, 2018 view post
      • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

        Dear Burnt out-  I have all but stopped posting on this cancer board because of a "troll" that thinks she is an expert and is tooo willing to harshly tell people what to do.  But I have to reply to you because it broke my heart to think somebody else is going thru what I am. I don't have the answers Maam, but I have realized that the cancer doctors do not seem to care about the quality of life the patient a...

        June 15, 2018 view post
        • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

          Pete- So So Sorry. God Bless You. Gigi

          June 05, 2018 view post
          • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

            Pete- I have been gone for a couple months. I looked into CC today and shed a tear when I read that Misty is now on hospice.I had to get this message to you as you have been so kind and understanding to me in my many challenges. I wish  I could help more at this most difficult time.  I send you and Misty my love and pray for God's mercy during this difficult time. Gigi

            June 03, 2018 view post
            • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

              Dear Sweet teenager.  I think you already suspect your friend may be tellingyou a story that hopefully is not true.At 14 I told people at school that I was adopted.  I did it for attention and because I was so ahamed of my sister.  She was very smart book wise, but lacked social graces and a lack of hygene.  My mother, I felt , didn't try to show her different either.  o I guess thats wh...

              June 02, 2018 view post
              • imyaya has created a new message board discussion

                My husband was diagnosed with MM three years ago . It took his hip and pelvis collapsing for the doctors to realize that it was MM and not something else that was first diagnosed.  For the last three years I have cared for my husband and seen him gradually get more out of control mentally.  When I asked the doctors I am told that the Revlimid and Dexamethasome (chemo and steroids= that I thought were respon...

                April 07, 2018 view discussion
                • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

                  Carolyn-Please STOP trying to compare yourself to me.  The only thing we have in common is we are both caregivers. I would never be so sure of myself as to give unsolicited forceful advice to someone who has just had her heart broken.  And I especially would not try a second time to get to that person.  Patty and Marge blessed me with such kind responses to my heartbreak and dilema. Please, I do not kn...

                  March 23, 2018 view post
                  • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

                    Thank You Marge. He has been in bed since his diagnosis three years ago with the exception of short trips here and there. His hip and pelvis are gone but no more pain since radiation 3 years ago.  He has a bad limp. My son got him a electric chair and he wanders the neighborhood in it sometimes,always returning to his bed though. I know the meds take his energy, but his energy is there when he wants it, not when...

                    March 23, 2018 view post
                    • imyaya has replied to a post on the message board

                      Thank You Patty.  You are so kind.  Your note lifted some of the sting I got from Carolyn. Gigi

                      March 23, 2018 view post
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