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  • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

    Thank you Punky!!! He has been acting wierd lately (Read post to other person), calling me with different emotions, wants me in his life, doesn't want me in his life, stop telling people I have cancer, you have treated me like crap when we were together (So on and so forth).... He now denies he ever was told he had 6 months to live so I don't know what is going on....

    January 25 at 12:23 PM view post
    • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

      Hi sorry you are going through this.  I don't know how to answer you yet I am kind of going through the same thing. My bf/Xbf has stage 4 kidney cancer and told me we were done a month ago.  He goes through these wierd stages where he'll call and be sad, saying he wants me back in his life.  Then he calls days later to complain about how I treated him like crap when we were together.  He called ...

      January 25 at 12:20 PM view post
      • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

        So I found out that bf was told in the beginning of November that he had six months to live. He told a few close personal friends and family, but not me. They were told not to tell me.  He reached out to me on Xmas and New Year’s and I did not respond.  Now his health status has changed where his chemo treatment has changed to something more potent until next January; meaning he i...

        January 19 at 5:40 PM view discussion
        • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

          I love it!! Just heard it for the first time (See my post) although it was Vera Lynn...Great song

          December 23 at 4:10 PM view post
          • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

            And also thank you Pete for your advice on the support groups only I won't be needing them anymore.  He refused to go to any support groups for himself....

            December 22 at 5:47 PM view post
            • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

              I posted here a few weeks back in regards to my boyfriend with stage 4 kidney cancer and how he was meeting with the doctors for an update on his prognosis (Thank you Granitejunkie for your response)…  The week of his doctor appointment he had me at arm’s length and two days after his doctor appointment (Which he claimed everything was GREAT) he told me we were done. He would not...

              December 22 at 5:37 PM view discussion
              • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

                Boyfriend has stage 4 kidney cancer and we have been struggling with this nightmare and I just want it to end. He had to retire from the military due to the cancer and is having a hard time expressing his feelings and talking about it.  He tells everyone he is going "Great!!!" when he is not...I read a recent post where the patient was laughing and joking on the phone with his friends..he doe...

                December 08 at 3:52 PM view discussion
                • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

                  thank you for all of the information and your advice. we have been struggling with this nightmare and i just want it to end. he had to retire from the military due to teh cancer and is having a hard time expressing his feelings and talking about it.  he tells everyone he is going "Great!!!" when he is not... Today bf meets with the doctors to determine if his first round of chemo has been wo...

                  December 08 at 3:08 PM view post
                  • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

                    Also, are there any support groups he and I could go to? We live in the Boston, Ma area.  Thanks!

                    December 06 at 3:31 PM view post
                    • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

                      Hello this is my first time on this board.  My boyfriend is dealing with stage 4 kidney cancer and has completed a round of chemo, took some time off and has taken himself today to the hospital for his second round. He has refused to let anyone take him and was very distant over the holiday and this week.  I have been taking care of him when he lets me as we do not live together.  I cook him a huge ...

                      December 06 at 3:28 PM view discussion
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                      Kidney Cancer
                      After Treatment, Cancer Diagnosis, Cancer Nutrition, Cancer Prevention, Cancer Treatments, Chemotherapy, Clinical Trials and Research, Conventional Treatments, Diet, Emotional Support

                      Boyfriend diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer.

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