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  • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

    "She told me that I need to “forgive and forget” and reach out to him. I told her that I am not reaching out to him and would be open to meeting for coffee and chat he knows where to find me.  I have trust issues to begin with and in a perfect world we would get back together yesterday and live happily ever after. BUT I DO NOT TRUST HIM and without trust I don’t think this will work ...

    June 10 at 5:00 PM view post
    • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

      Hi everyone thanks for the replies.  Bf and I got back together and are doing well. We started out as freinds, stepped it up to casual dating to now back in a committed relationship.  He is doing well albiet feeling lousy with his treatments.  Things are going really well for us and the fact that he was told that he had six months to live was a rumor.  He has been including me with his health inf...

      June 10 at 4:53 PM view post
      • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

        Thank you Punky!!! He has been acting wierd lately (Read post to other person), calling me with different emotions, wants me in his life, doesn't want me in his life, stop telling people I have cancer, you have treated me like crap when we were together (So on and so forth).... He now denies he ever was told he had 6 months to live so I don't know what is going on....

        January 25 at 12:23 PM view post
        • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

          Hi sorry you are going through this.  I don't know how to answer you yet I am kind of going through the same thing. My bf/Xbf has stage 4 kidney cancer and told me we were done a month ago.  He goes through these wierd stages where he'll call and be sad, saying he wants me back in his life.  Then he calls days later to complain about how I treated him like crap when we were together.  He called ...

          January 25 at 12:20 PM view post
          • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

            So I found out that bf was told in the beginning of November that he had six months to live. He told a few close personal friends and family, but not me. They were told not to tell me.  He reached out to me on Xmas and New Year’s and I did not respond.  Now his health status has changed where his chemo treatment has changed to something more potent until next January; meaning he i...

            January 19 at 5:40 PM view discussion
            • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

              I love it!! Just heard it for the first time (See my post) although it was Vera Lynn...Great song

              December 23 at 4:10 PM view post
              • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

                And also thank you Pete for your advice on the support groups only I won't be needing them anymore.  He refused to go to any support groups for himself....

                December 22 at 5:47 PM view post
                • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

                  I posted here a few weeks back in regards to my boyfriend with stage 4 kidney cancer and how he was meeting with the doctors for an update on his prognosis (Thank you Granitejunkie for your response)…  The week of his doctor appointment he had me at arm’s length and two days after his doctor appointment (Which he claimed everything was GREAT) he told me we were done. He would not...

                  December 22 at 5:37 PM view discussion
                  • jfunbug has created a new message board discussion

                    Boyfriend has stage 4 kidney cancer and we have been struggling with this nightmare and I just want it to end. He had to retire from the military due to the cancer and is having a hard time expressing his feelings and talking about it.  He tells everyone he is going "Great!!!" when he is not...I read a recent post where the patient was laughing and joking on the phone with his friends..he doe...

                    December 08, 2017 view discussion
                    • jfunbug has replied to a post on the message board

                      thank you for all of the information and your advice. we have been struggling with this nightmare and i just want it to end. he had to retire from the military due to teh cancer and is having a hard time expressing his feelings and talking about it.  he tells everyone he is going "Great!!!" when he is not... Today bf meets with the doctors to determine if his first round of chemo has been wo...

                      December 08, 2017 view post
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                      Kidney Cancer
                      After Treatment, Cancer Diagnosis, Cancer Nutrition, Cancer Prevention, Cancer Treatments, Chemotherapy, Clinical Trials and Research, Conventional Treatments, Diet, Emotional Support

                      Boyfriend diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer.

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