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sanjim's Recent CancerCompass Activity

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     Thank you all for your messages,I am doing better now, it was such a sock to see someone who looked so much like my husband. I am learning to go on without Jim, you all know how hard it can be. I just take one day at a time. Sandra

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      hi all, I have beeb oing pretty good for about a month,late Saturday night, I just started crying for some unknown reason ., I had a good cry and was feeling some what normal until today. I went to Wally World and as I was leaving I saw a man who was dress like my husband dressed as I did a second take he turn around and I lost it, he looked so much like my husband i still can not believe it, I am stil shaking. If I ...

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        Hi all,  My weekend for most of my family was a weekend of barabque's and so on. Sunday would have been our 39th wedding anniversary, I  did a lot fo thinking about what Jim and I were doing 39 years ago. Saturday we had a the wedding  rehearsal and dinner, Sunday was the wedding and reception and on Memorial Day we went to a nearby town for there Memorial Day Parade, then to a dinner were our Sen...

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          Hi Irene, I hope that your deck will soon be finished. I know you will enjoy it when the weather gets better. we finally got some much needed rain, it di make the grass grow, yesterday I mowed with the  riding mower and today Andy is doing the trimming. I have also gained some weight lately, I am trying to watch what I eat, it is hard to do because we eat out several times a week. also with all of the pain it i...

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            Irene, I hope that you  are feeling better today, pleease take care of the high BP, as a nurse you know how important it is that you get it down to normal, I thank God that is one problem I have not had.Last night was another night when I got very little sleep, the pain is always severe in the middle of the night. I am putting on my happy face and going to go to bible study this morning. Have you been sett...

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              Hi Irene, I also often think about what I have been thur since I lost my Jim. All  of the changes I have made in my life. I know so very well that this is not the life that we had planned.  I never even thought that I would be in Florida with my son , so far away from family, things have changed so Much since we lost our husbands I also can say that now I feel I can take care of myself and my son, well...

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                Hi All,  The moon was beautiful! In  my mind  could see my hubby and setting on the porch enjoying the view, and I also could see Irene driviing with the moon roof open with her four legged friends. Latley I have been reading all of your postings. I have not felt like responding, my neck and back pain has been really getting to me.  the pain is getting unbearable. I had a nerve test 2 weeks ago, ...

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                  Congradulation on getting your nre Rav4, i am sure will ejoy it! If you want a sun roof go for it! Hopefully you and the dealer can come  to some kind of aggrement. I now have 10,000 mile on my Escape, I have really enjoyed driving it around. Enjoy your ne w Rav4! Sandra

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                    Irene , You are doing so good, making decisions is a difficult thing to do, I also think that you have been wise to wait a year, I think that  Phil would be pleased with you dicisons that you are making. Jim and I talked about redoing my kitchen several  times and now that I have finished it up I think about how much he would have like the bar, I can see him setting there enjoing a cup of coffee. I am sure ...

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                       You are welcome, Several of us here on CC  are here for each other, we all are in the same boat. this is a good place to vent and hear back from someone who truly knows what we are going through. It has truly help me many time. Thank you to all of mt CC friends. HUGS to all Sandra

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                      About sanjim

                      Caregiver
                      Colon Cancer
                      Support, Spiritual Support, Emotional Support

                      After 4 years of treatment, I lost my huband of 38 years to stage 4 colon cancer.

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